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  • Religion, Identity & Social Media: Having IMPOSSIBLE Conversations in 2025
    2025/05/21

    Some topics feel impossible to discuss in 2025. They're too loaded, too painful, too complex. Today's episode tackles one of the most challenging: the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. Through Nicole's personal journey as someone with Jewish heritage, we explore what happens when identity, politics, and humanity collide. No easy answers, just real conversation about issues that matter.

    For Nicole, the Israeli-Palestinian conflict isn't just headlines - it's personal. Growing up with a Jewish father and a Christian mother meant straddling two worlds, never quite belonging in either. Jewish enough to feel the sting of antisemitism, but not Jewish enough by traditional standards to be fully embraced by the community.


    It took experiencing blatant antisemitism at the University of Iowa to force a reckoning with this part of her identity. Suddenly, defending Jewish heritage became personal, even while questioning where she actually fit into the equation.


    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction

    00:50 Addressing Viewer Questions

    02:43 Personal Background and Identity

    05:31 Complexities of the Israeli-Palestinian Conflict

    10:03 Protests and Free Speech

    14:48 Race, Religion, and Social Movements

    18:10 The Impact of Social Media on Political Opinions

    20:10 Personal Experiences with Social Media Posts

    21:52 The Consequences of Offensive Social Media Posts

    22:31 The Role of Social Media in Modern Society

    25:12 The Influence of Political Figures on Social Media Behavior

    27:50 Promoting Peace Through Social Media

    29:17 Lighthearted 'Would You Rather' Game



    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    Good for the Soul:

    https://www.instagram.com/lalshareef/


    LINKS:

    On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/


    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/


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    30 分
  • Is Ozempic the wonder drug we need?
    2025/05/14

    Every woman knows that number. The one on the scale that determines if it's going to be a "good" day or a "bad" day. Today's episode strips away the Instagram filters and exposes the raw truth about weight obsession, body image, and the latest "miracle" drug everyone's talking about - Ozempic. From step aerobics in the 80s to modern-day weight loss shots, Nicole and Jolene confront the exhausting reality of living in a society obsessed with being thin.

    America's relationship with weight isn't just about health - it's about worth. It's about equating thinness with success, with discipline, with value. Both of us have lived through decades of this messaging, from Jane Fonda workout tapes to today's "what I eat in a day" TikToks.

    The pressure doesn't just come from social media or magazine covers. It's whispered in dressing rooms, discussed over salads, and embedded in every "you look great, have you lost weight?" compliment.

    The solution isn't found in another injection, another diet, or another exercise program. It starts with confronting uncomfortable truths: about how we value ourselves, about what we're really hungry for, about the cost of chasing an impossible standard.

    Your Turn To Share!

    Are you tired of waging war with your body? Have you considered Ozempic as your next battle plan? The conversation continues on Instagram and YouTube channel "We've Got to Talk." Because maybe the first step to healing isn't changing our bodies - it's changing the conversation.

    P.S. Your worth isn't measured in pounds, and your story is so much bigger than a before and after photo. 💕

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction to Ozempic Discussion

    01:49 Personal Struggles with Weight

    03:01 Research and Insights on Ozempic

    03:53 Societal and Cultural Perspectives on Body Image

    05:03 Health Implications and Personal Experiences

    06:39 Challenges and Considerations with Ozempic

    09:16 Personal Weight Management Stories

    16:29 Fasting and Health Regeneration

    20:09 Cancer and Health Awareness

    21:04 Considering Ozempic for Personal Use

    22:11 Dosing and Management Insights

    22:45 Contradictions in Health Choices

    24:17 Pharmaceutical Industry Critique

    26:35 Good for the Soul: Art and Instagram

    30:59 Would You Rather: Travel Dilemmas

    33:27 Would You Rather: Weight and Soup

    36:36 Closing Remarks and Subscriptions



    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    Art Daily Dose: https://www.instagram.com/art_dailydose/

    America the Possible: https://www.instagram.com/americathepossible/

    Dr. Mark Hyman with Dr. Tyna Moore and Callie Means

    podcasts.apple.com

    Tangle News https://www.instagram.com/tangle.news/?hl=en

    Dr. Mary Claire Haver: https://www.instagram.com/drmaryclaire/?hl=en

    Dr. Stacy Sims: https://www.drstacysims.com/


    LINKS:

    On Instagram

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    38 分
  • Why would a Christian woman vote for Trump? - your questions answered
    2025/05/07

    Ever wondered how a conservative Christian woman justifies voting for Donald Trump? Or how someone reconciles their faith with a leader whose behavior often raises eyebrows? Today, we're ripping off the band-aid and answering some of the questions that have been flooding our DMs. No sugar-coating, no dancing around the issues—just real talk about politics, faith, and those messy places where they collide.

    Here's the thing—whether you're nodding along or shaking your head, this conversation matters. We're peeling back the layers of assumptions that keep us divided and replacing them with something more valuable: understanding.

    Got thoughts? Questions? Maybe you're sitting there thinking we've lost our minds or finally found our sense? Drop us a line on Instagram or jump into the comments on our YouTube channel "We've Got to Talk." This conversation's just getting started, and your voice matters.

    - Nicole & Jolene

    P.S. Yes, we're still friends after this conversation. 😉

    CHAPTER MARKERS:

    00:00 Introduction and Pre-Recording Banter

    02:44 Feedback and Listener Reactions

    03:58 Discussing the Podcast's Purpose

    07:59 Homework Assignment and Listener Questions

    08:41 Explaining the Trump Vote

    12:25 Addressing Concerns About Trump

    21:22 Debating Trump's Racism Allegations

    26:08 Government Control and Spending

    29:04 Liberal Perspectives and National Parks

    30:12 State of the Union Address Highlights

    30:59 Emotional Moments and Political Reactions

    34:45 Transgender Issues in Sports

    37:59 Ukraine-Russia Conflict Analysis

    44:23 Would You Rather? Fun and Games

    50:22 Final Thoughts


    LINKS:

    On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/


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    55 分
  • Are we getting canceled?
    2025/04/30

    One wrong social media post. One controversial opinion. That's all it takes to see your business suffer in 2025. Today we’re taking a look at the brutal reality of cancel culture - what actually happens when your views don't match the majority. From death threats sliding into DMs to orchestrated boycott campaigns, Nicole and Jolene reveal the true cost of speaking up in an era where silence feels safer.

    The most dangerous impact of cancel culture isn't the loud voices demanding boycotts - it's the voices we never hear. How many important conversations die in draft folders? How many perspectives get buried under layers of fear? How many bridges never get built because everyone's afraid to take the first step?

    Two women from opposite sides of the political spectrum refuse to let fear win. While Jolene still worries about Dible Dough and Nicole still concerns herself with a potential backlash, we’ve decided that honest, respectful dialogue matters more than playing it safe.


    Your Turn to Talk

    Are you holding back your truth? Have you swallowed your words because the risk felt too high? The conversation continues on Instagram and YouTube channel "We've Got to Talk." Because in a world where cancel culture thrives on division, real conversation might be the only way forward.


    - Nicole & Jolene


    P.S. Thinking about canceling either of us after reading this? Try having a real conversation first. Coffee beats keyboard warfare every time. 😉


    CHAPTER MARKERS:


    00:00 Introduction

    01:23 Launching We’ve Got To Talk Podcast

    03:28 Facing Cancel Culture

    05:31 Boycotts and Their Impact

    07:50 Introducing Dibble Dough

    08:21 Navigating Political Views

    16:54 The Hypocrisy of Choices

    18:57 The Privilege of Choice

    19:26 Dealing with Anger and Exhaustion

    20:24 Podcast Journey and Support

    22:45 Cookie Dough Flavors

    24:17 Good for the Soul Recommendations

    25:30 Would You Rather?


    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    Healing Out Loud - Instagram

    Progress Network - Instagram


    LINKS:

    On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/


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  • Disruption in DC: Elon Musk and the DOGE
    2025/04/23

    It's not every day you hear about a tech mogul transitioning to a pivotal role in government, yet here we are. When Donald Trump appointed Elon Musk as the head of the Department Of Government Efficiency, it sent shockwaves through every corner of Washington D.C. It's a bold move that has us curious, frustrated, and admittedly a bit nervous about what lies ahead.

    So what does this truly mean in the governmental landscape? Only time will tell, but it’s certainly causing quite a stir among Republicans and Democrats.

    As the dust begins to settle, both the support and criticism around Musk’s influence are palpable. From what we're hearing on both ends of the political spectrum, everyone seems to be adopting a cautious optimism—or skepticism. Will the DOGE write a new chapter in the smart and efficient handling of our resources, or are we looking at a costly experiment?

    Ultimately, whether you view this as a weird detour or a necessary intervention, one thing is clear: Elon Musk has galvanized a government ready for an upgrade. Join the conversation, wherever it may lead, because this is undoubtedly a moment that will make waves in history books yet to be written.

    00:00 Introduction to Elon Musk and DOGE

    00:57 Media Influence and Leaked Conversations

    02:23 Muzzle Velocity and Media Critique

    05:03 White House Press and Influencer Involvement

    06:33 Beauty Standards and Political Stereotypes

    08:35 Disruption in Government and Tech Industry

    14:47 Elon Musk's Leadership Style and Influence

    19:00 Political Protests and Free Speech

    21:32 Revamping Conversations and Common Ground

    22:14 Addressing Waste, Fraud, and Abuse

    22:59 The Role of the United States in Global Aid

    23:38 Elon Musk's Transparency and Cuts

    24:23 The Impact of USAID and Government Spending

    28:26 Social Security and National Debt

    30:07 The Global Impact of Aid Programs

    32:47 The Need for Change and Disruption

    35:37 Would You Rather Game

    LINKS:

    404 Media: https://www.404media.co/things-are-going-to-get-intense-how-a-musk-ally-plans-to-push-ai-on-the-government/

    Wired article: https://www.wired.com/story/elon-musk-lieutenant-gsa-ai-agency/?ref=404media.co


    On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

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    42 分
  • 10% on EVERYTHING? Trump's Latest Tariff Bombshell
    2025/04/16

    The White House has become America's most dramatic reality show, with policy changes dropping faster than a new Netflix series. Trump's latest plot twist? A fresh wave of tariffs that are sending shockwaves from Wall Street to Shanghai. Just when the global markets thought they had the script figured out, this new economic bombshell is rewriting international trade rules and leaving world leaders scrambling to respond.

    For those keeping score at home (and let's face it, we all should be), these aren't just numbers on a spreadsheet—they're moves in a high-stakes game that's reshaping everything from your morning coffee prices to the future of international commerce.

    Sure, Trump's "art of the deal" might make headlines, but let's get real—are these aggressive trade tactics actually strengthening global economic stability, or are they pushing us closer to a worldwide recession?

    Here's the thing about global tariffs—they're like throwing a stone into a pond. The ripples affect everything: international relations, supply chains, consumer prices, and yes, even your local businesses. Some adapt and thrive, others struggle to stay afloat in these choppy economic waters.

    We could debate international trade policy until the cows come home (wherever those cows might be manufactured these days), but now we want to hear from you. How are these global economic shifts affecting your corner of the world? Are you seeing prices climb? Has your business had to pivot its international strategy?

    Whether you're watching from Wall Street or Main Street, your perspective matters in this global economic story. Stay informed, keep asking questions, and remember—in today's interconnected world, every economic decision has worldwide consequences.

    00:00 Introduction to the Tariff Rollercoaster

    01:27 Impact on Small Business Owners

    02:29 Packaging and Sourcing Decisions

    04:29 Retailer Challenges and Market Reactions

    06:06 Political Influences and Decisions

    08:31 Global Trade and Tariff Implications

    11:26 Tariffs and the Fentanyl Crisis

    14:53 Canada, Mexico, and Trade Dynamics

    21:53 China's Dominance in Global Manufacturing

    24:03 Green Energy Initiatives and China

    26:17 Tariffs and American Manufacturing

    30:44 Tax Cuts and Economic Policies

    32:18 The Wealth Gap and Taxation

    34:36 Stock Market and Economic Trust

    36:34 Geopolitical Threats and China

    37:59 Good for the Soul and Social Media

    40:28 Would You Rather? Fun Questions

    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    Tax Foundation: https://taxfoundation.org/

    USA Facts: https://usafacts.org/


    LINKS:

    On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

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    43 分
  • Our take on DEI Rollbacks
    2025/04/09

    Hold onto your hats, folks—we're about to tackle one of the most heated topics in the current US political landscape. Trump's recent rollback of DEI initiatives has set off a firestorm of reactions, and this topic is anything but simple.

    You know what's fascinating? The sheer audacity of this move has created a natural experiment in corporate values. While some companies scrambled to follow suit and drop the initiative with vigor, giants like Costco, the NFL, and Apple stood their ground with a resounding "Thanks, but no thanks." It's like watching a high-stakes poker game where companies are betting on their principles—and consumers hold the winning cards.

    Maybe the real story isn't about Trump's decision or corporate America's response. Maybe it's about us—everyday people making countless small decisions that add up to significant change. Whether you're Team DEI or Team Rollback, you're part of this unfolding story.

    So, what's your take? Are we witnessing the death of corporate diversity initiatives, or is this just another plot twist in America's ongoing journey toward equality? The conversation continues, and your voice matters more than you might think.


    Let's keep talking, questioning, and yes, even disagreeing. Because that's how progress happens—one conversation, one decision, one action at a time.



    00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    00:42 Discussing DEI: Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion

    01:04 Benefits and Challenges of Being a Woman-Owned Business

    03:11 Reactions to DEI Rollbacks

    04:24 Impact of George Floyd's Death on DEI Initiatives

    05:29 Meritocracy and Racial Bias in Business

    08:02 Trump's Executive Actions and Affirmative Action

    09:25 Public Reaction to Trump's Policies

    09:49 Tabitha Brown and Supporting Minority-Owned Businesses

    10:38 The Role of Government and Corporations in DEI

    23:05 Debating America's Identity

    24:15 The DEI Controversy

    25:48 Political Figures and Decisions

    28:44 The Role of Women in Politics

    34:04 Hypothetical Questions and Reflections

    36:19 Final Thoughts and Agreement


    RESOURCES MENTIONED:

    Tabitha Brown - Target

    Tabitha Brown - Instagram


    LINKS:

    Website: https://www.wevegottotalk.com/

    Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

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    40 分
  • Debating RFK’s Role as Secretary of HSS
    2025/04/02

    In our latest episode, we tackled a story that reads like a political thriller—Robert F. Kennedy Jr's appointment as U.S. Secretary of Health and Human Services. This isn't just another political appointment; it's a narrative that challenges everything we thought we knew about party lines, public health, and the dance between science and politics.

    Picture this: A Kennedy—yes, from that Kennedy family—potentially serving under a Republican administration. It's like watching a political eclipse; rare, fascinating, and slightly unsettling. Though, not dissimilar to Trump switching from his Liberal roots to the Republican party. This unexpected alliance has left both sides of the aisle scratching their heads, wondering if we've entered an alternate political universe. Or has it become more important to side with the party that you think has the best chance of holding the power.

    This isn't just about political appointments or healthcare policies—it's about reclaiming our voice in conversations that affect our families' wellbeing. We're calling for a new era of informed dialogue, where questioning the status quo doesn't make you a conspiracy theorist, and supporting science doesn't make you a corporate puppet.

    From this conversation, one thing became crystal clear: This conversation isn't just about RFK Jr or political appointments—it's about you, your health, and your right to understand the forces shaping our healthcare future. The question isn't whether you agree with every point, but whether you're ready to join this crucial conversation about our collective wellbeing.

    00:00 Introduction

    01:09 RFK's Political Background and Initial Reactions

    03:03 Health and Food Safety Concerns

    09:15 Vaccine Controversies and Government Trust Issues

    11:31 Cancer and Vaccine Discussions

    19:01 Concerns About RFK's Potential Conflicts of Interest

    20:16 Impressions from the Hearings

    22:32 Senators' Perspectives and Emotional Moments

    25:28 Televised Hearings and Political Grandstanding

    26:40 Accountability and Transparency in Politics

    29:00 Bernie Sanders and Elizabeth Warren's Passion

    32:00 Media Influence and Pharmaceutical Industry

    33:51 RFK's Vision for Unobstructed Science

    36:46 Would You Rather? Fun and Personal Reflections


    LINKS:

    Website: https://www.wevegottotalk.com/

    On Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wevegottotalk/

    On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeveGotToTalk

    How to find Nicole https://nicolefonarow.com/

    How to find Jolene https://dibledough.com/

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    41 分