Episode Summary:

In this deeply moving and honest episode, Amy Wheeler welcomes Lisa Becks—a yoga teacher, clinical social worker, and long-time practitioner—who shares her lifelong journey with yoga as a steady companion through grief, motherhood, cancer, and healing. Lisa recounts how she first encountered yoga in her early twenties while grieving the sudden loss of her mother, and how that one class at a Zen Buddhist center in Michigan led to decades of inner transformation.

From the profound influence of her first teacher Barbara Linderman (a direct student of Śrī T. Krishnamacharya) to her healing experience with Kate Holcombe after a breast cancer diagnosis, Lisa's story reminds us that yoga isn't about performance or ambition—it's about returning to ourselves, again and again. Throughout this conversation, Amy and Lisa reflect on parenting without a mother, the reverberations of our actions and emotions, and how the most healing practices are often the simplest and most sincere.

Listeners will be inspired by Lisa’s vulnerability, her gentle wisdom, and the way she lives the teachings she practices. Whether you're new to yoga or have been on the path for years, this episode is a tender reminder that yoga, when approached with sincerity and self-awareness, meets us exactly where we are.

Key Topics Covered:

• Grieving the loss of a parent and finding yoga as a healing anchor
• The sacred presence of humble teachers and quiet transmission
• Evolution of practice across life stages: young adulthood, motherhood, illness
• Self-awareness, self-regulation, and the nervous system
• Using observation instead of judgment to shift behavior
• Teaching yoga as a form of service and continued self-discovery
• Cancer recovery, the role of gentle discipline, and meeting yourself with grace
• Yoga as a way to parent consciously without inherited patterns
• Coming home to the self—again and again

Mentioned in This Episode:

• Barbara Linderman (student of Śrī T. Krishnamacharya)
• Kate Holcombe (teacher in the tradition of TKV Desikachar)
• Inward Bound Yoga Collective, Ann Arbor, MI
• Optimal State Yoga Therapy Training

About Lisa Becks:

Lisa is a yoga teacher, clinical social worker, and mother of two. She offers private yoga therapy sessions by request and believes in the quiet, transformative power of personalized practice. Lisa does not actively market her services, but those who find her often discover a steady, compassionate guide.

Amy Wheeler, Ph.D. is the Chair of the Department of Yoga Therapy and Ayurveda at Maryland University of Integrative Health (MUIH) and a leader in the fields of yoga therapy and Ayurveda. She played a key role in helping to set standards for Ayurvedic Yoga Therapists at the National Ayurvedic Medical Association (NAMA) and served as President of the Board of Directors for the International Association of Yoga Therapists (IAYT) from 2018 to 2020. www.TheOptimalState.com

Master of Science in Yoga Therapy https://muih.edu/academics/yoga-therapy/master-of-science-in-yoga-therapy/

Explore MUIH’s Post-Master’s Certificate in Therapeutic Yoga Practices, designed specifically for licensed healthcare professionals. https://muih.edu/academics/yoga-therapy/post-masters-certificate-in-therapeutic-yoga-practices/

Try our Post-Bac Ayurveda Certification Program at MUIH: https://muih.edu/academics/ayurveda/post-baccalaureate-ayurveda-certification/

In this thought-provoking solo episode of The Yoga Therapy Hour, Amy Wheeler explores the profound topic of safety in human relationships, drawing from recent co-creative discussions with seasoned therapists and yoga practitioners, as well as insights from Polyvagal Theory.

Episode Highlights:

• The Foundation of Healing: Amy emphasizes that safety—both internal and external—is the essential foundation for healing, transformation, and authentic human connection.
• The Role of Nonjudgment: A central theme of this episode is how nonjudgmental presence, both in therapy and daily life, fosters safety and allows people to open up and be themselves.
• Artificial Intelligence & Safety: Amy reflects on the surprising role AI therapy bots play in creating a nonjudgmental space, and what this teaches us about human interaction.
• Key Qualities that Foster Safety:
• Comfort with silence and emotional presence.
• Ability to repair ruptures in relationships, not just avoid them.
• Unconditional positive regard without creating stories about others.
• Transparency balanced with cultural sensitivity.
• Openness to new experiences and flexibility in thinking.
• Clear and honest communication that eliminates guesswork.
• Self-awareness and the ability to reflect and take responsibility.
• Consistency, calm regulation, and respect for time and commitments.
• Attunement to the emotional state of others, with empathetic mirroring.
• A melodic, regulated voice that supports co-regulation.
• Genuine listening that seeks to understand, not just respond.
• Familiar rituals and environments that offer predictable support.
• Respect for diverse perspectives and willingness to stand up for justice.

Key Takeaways:

• Safety isn't just about avoiding harm; it's about creating conditions where authenticity, trust, and transformation can thrive.
• Even positive judgments can feel like evaluations, reducing the sense of safety in a relationship.
• Sacredness in connection—showing up mentally, emotionally, and spiritually prepared—amplifies the healing potential of every interaction.

Resources Mentioned:

• Polyvagal Theory – A framework for understanding how safety and social engagement are wired into our nervous system.
• Book Recommendation: Necessary Endings by Dr. Henry Cloud – Understanding when and how to bring closure to relationships in a healthy way.

Connect with Amy Wheeler:

For more episodes, resources, and information about Yoga Therapy, visit TheOptimalState.com

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Master of Science in Yoga Therapy https://muih.edu/academics/yoga-therapy/master-of-science-in-yoga-therapy/

Explore MUIH’s Post-Master’s Certificate in Therapeutic Yoga Practices, designed specifically for licensed healthcare professionals. https://muih.edu/academics/yoga-therapy/post-masters-certificate-in-therapeutic-yoga-practices/

Try our Post-Bac Ayurveda Certification Program at MUIH: https://muih.edu/academics/ayurveda/post-baccalaureate-ayurveda-certification/

Episode Summary:

In this deeply moving and powerful episode, Amy Wheeler sits down with Dr. Steffany Moonaz—yoga researcher, author, educator, and founder of Yoga for Arthritis—to discuss her professional contributions to the field of yoga therapy, and the personal story that nearly shattered everything she knew about herself.

What begins as a conversation about the CLARIFY Guidelines and the evolution of yoga research quickly transitions into a vulnerable and heartfelt dialogue about grief, identity, traumatic brain injury (TBI), caregiving, and the long, often invisible road to healing.

Dr. Moonaz shares the inspiration behind her memoir Driving Home: Cancer, Concussion, Mom and Me, and invites us into the emotional terrain of a year marked by tragedy, disorientation, and ultimately, profound transformation. Through the lens of yoga, neuroscience, and lived experience, she offers wisdom on surviving loss—not just the loss of loved ones, but the loss of self as we once knew it.

If you've ever questioned how the tools of yoga serve us not just in theory, but in the darkest moments of real life, this conversation is for you.

Topics We Explore:

• The origin and impact of the CLARIFY Guidelines for yoga research
• What makes yoga research replicable, credible, and useful for clinicians
• Dr. Moonaz’s academic leadership in yoga therapy at MUIH and SCUHS
• The backstory of Yoga for Arthritis and its public health mission
• Living through a year of compounded loss: traumatic brain injury, caregiving, and grief
• Navigating healthcare systems and trauma while healing
• Writing a memoir as a healing process and reflective practice
• The psychological and somatic experience of losing identity through injury
• Yoga therapy for grief, loss, and identity reconstruction
• Steffany's personal tapas (discipline) and her decision to keep showing up
• Reclaiming wholeness post-trauma: a new “A-prime” version of self

Featured Book:

Driving Home: Cancer, Concussion, Mom and Me

Now available in hardcover, paperback, and ebook formats.

Audiobook coming soon—narrated by Dr. Steffany Moonaz herself

Connect with Steffany Moonaz:

Website: https://arthritis.yoga

Explore professional trainings in Yoga for Arthritis, mentoring opportunities, research publications, and continuing education courses.

Upcoming offerings include:

• Online cohort: Yoga for Arthritis Level 1 Training (starting July 15, 2025)
• Self-paced options in yoga, Ayurveda, and pain science
• In-person retreat at Yogaville, Summer 2026

Quote from the Episode:

“I had to grieve the things about me that I had lost, at the same time as grieving the loss of my mother... But I also believe that I have made up for the loss of function with who I have grown into as a human.” — Dr. Steffany Moonaz

Special Thanks:

To Dr. Moonaz for her honesty, strength, and generosity.

And to our listeners—may this story remind you of your own resilience, your own wisdom, and the power of bearing witness to the full spectrum of the human experience.

Information on Amy:

www.amywheeler.com

www.TheOptimalState.com