What do online privacy, sex work decrim, fire butt pix, and clowns have in common? Well they’re all special interests of our Deep Dive guest this month — Gutter! Gutter is one of our long time moderators of the Ask A Sub Discord community (a benefit of ask a sub patreon membership), and she joined me to talk community building, masochism, and more. Join us in a clown serenity prayer. For your filthy eternal soul.

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Should we keep our friendships separate from our D/s dynamics? Should we merge all our relationships, friendships, and situationships into the world's largest cuddle puddle? What can we learn, aside from the latest scientific advances in filler technology, from reality television about the monogamy/polyamory divide? Lina tackles all that in this episode and more and because we were all good boys/girls/they/thems we get a special treat from a listener who shares their personal story about why they love pet play 🐶

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ISN’T BEING AN OPEN-HEARTED AND EVOLVED HUMAN SO FUN??? HAHA Well this week we’re talking about what to do when your partner is in love, not forcing yourself to feel compersion before you’re ready, and some hot takes on boundaries (sometimes they can control the behavior of others?? Are we backsliding into toxicity on the AAS pod or innovating?? You be the judge) PLUS stick around till the end of the episode for a BRAND NEW ONGOING SEGMENT called SCENE STORIES!!!

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The first brick at Stonewall. The repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”. Obergefell v. Hodges. What better way to commemorate these extremely profound and meaningful moments in the history of the struggle for LGBTQ+ rights than by chaotically (but helpfully!) talking about… butt stuff. In this chaotically good June Pride Month episode, we revisit a classic podcast answer where Lina went deep, we’re talking reaaaaallll deep, into all things anal. Come away educated, excited, enlivened, and relaxed. (In the butthole)

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How do we advocate for our desires the same way we advocate for our limits? How do we see ourselves as valid even if we’re bedroom-only? How can a safe word be heard through a ball gag? Lina has practical answers to all of the above, including a (ASMR?) demonstration for one of them…. you’ll never guess which!!

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A caller wants to know what to do when a threesome fantasy about a friend becomes a sudden turn-off. Lina does some Ick Forensics™️ on what could be bothering them, and breaks down the realities of being your own Threesome BFF. Also a bonus pep talk for bi girls who are afraid of other girls — tl;dr if the world is burning you better be kissing someone about it so help me god.

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Today Lina answers one of life’s age old questions, one that’s debated frequently in a public forum much like the God question or origins of the universe — should Doms be subs before they Dom? Together we’ll weigh the benefits of gaining that empathetic perspective while also balancing the hot take that nobody should do anything sexually they don’t want to do. Also — a bonus discussion of Lina in a room with power advocating for sexuality creates online! Thanks to you!

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Sydney Baloue is a writer, performer, event producer and advocate for racial, social, and gender justice, LGBTQ+ rights, and for trans-masculine visibility in voguing, boxing and in the film and television industry. He opened up with us about the gay male rumspringa he had after transitioning, and how he’s found refuge in the wildest of places — gay male saunas and in the arms of various Daddies to name a few.

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