Today, I interview @VivianCumins who talks about her journey through perfectionism and control into a more balanced approach to living. Viv also talks about her recovery from cancer and how she has learned to lean into her faith in Jesus Christ to find peace. 0:00" Introduction 1:25" How Viv became aware of her issues with control 5:10" How "Control Issues" develop 8:40" The impact of over control on adult choices 10:48" Finding healthy balance 13:38" Viv's journey through cancer 16:11" God speaks through dreams (and other ways) 18:12" How Viv develops her connection to God 20:30 Closing Thoughts 🌐 Here is a link to Viv's website https://viviancumins.com/ and her Bio https://viviancumins.com/#about ✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/ 👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/ ✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/ 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 🎥 Control and Healthy Boundaries https://youtu.be/OJjTNm9IB-0?si=VSdCMIl8a-jCAA2g 🎥 How to Reduce Perfectionism and Self-Criticism

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You have a basic coping style. Find out what your style is and how to cope in a more effective way. This is from my book, "Anxiety, Depression & Helplessness: Keys to Break Free." Proactive Coping 0:57" Passive and Active Tendencies 1:52" Over-Use of Our Style 2:27" How Patterns Develop 3:32" Compulsions and Addictions 5:05" Expanding Your Style 5:29" Resources 7:28" This video is about Your Style of Coping - Christian Counseling but also tries to cover the following subject: Building Emotional Resilience Effective Stress Management Personality Style TITLE : Your Style of Coping - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.tonicooper8565 Important Links: 👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/ 👉 Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... 👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/ 👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V ✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/ 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 Strategies for Stress Management - https://youtu.be/1LVeaDuZQMw?si=biRNkZNWfUT_7xQw 👉 Improve Your Coping Skills - https://youtu.be/7bN9jyidm_c?si=kbl97FMgEtvhDCBk 👉 Healthy Personal Boundaries - https://youtu.be/gWR7l0soBoQ?si=l_22r54Bi63J-zLM 👉 Building Self-Confidence | Drtonicooper.com https://youtu.be/3XQQ7dKyYkk?si=U6IBfCL4JejK4I2Q ✅ About Dr. Toni Cooper Channel: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you move towards wholeness in spirit, soul, and body. #emotionalwellness #stressrelief #resilience #anxietymanagement #copingstrategies #personalgrowth Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. © Dr. Toni Cooper

There are important principles that can help people break free from their past and from a victim mindset. Today I explain how and guide you in a prayer to break free.

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