Today, I interview @VivianCumins who talks about her journey through perfectionism and control into a more balanced approach to living. Viv also talks about her recovery from cancer and how she has learned to lean into her faith in Jesus Christ to find peace. 0:00" Introduction 1:25" How Viv became aware of her issues with control 5:10" How "Control Issues" develop 8:40" The impact of over control on adult choices 10:48" Finding healthy balance 13:38" Viv's journey through cancer 16:11" God speaks through dreams (and other ways) 18:12" How Viv develops her connection to God 20:30 Closing Thoughts 🌐 Here is a link to Viv's website https://viviancumins.com/ and her Bio https://viviancumins.com/#about ✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/ 👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/ ✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/ 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 🎥 Control and Healthy Boundaries https://youtu.be/OJjTNm9IB-0?si=VSdCMIl8a-jCAA2g 🎥 How to Reduce Perfectionism and Self-Criticism

https://youtu.be/63RQJXhUILY?si=hPYNi8BAbwOOHHR3 🎥Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc 🎥 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeing Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. © Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

You have a basic coping style. Find out what your style is and how to cope in a more effective way. This is from my book, "Anxiety, Depression & Helplessness: Keys to Break Free." Proactive Coping 0:57" Passive and Active Tendencies 1:52" Over-Use of Our Style 2:27" How Patterns Develop 3:32" Compulsions and Addictions 5:05" Expanding Your Style 5:29" Resources 7:28" This video is about Your Style of Coping - Christian Counseling but also tries to cover the following subject: Building Emotional Resilience Effective Stress Management Personality Style TITLE : Your Style of Coping - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.tonicooper8565 Important Links: 👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/ 👉 Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... 👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/ 👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V ✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/ 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 Strategies for Stress Management - https://youtu.be/1LVeaDuZQMw?si=biRNkZNWfUT_7xQw 👉 Improve Your Coping Skills - https://youtu.be/7bN9jyidm_c?si=kbl97FMgEtvhDCBk 👉 Healthy Personal Boundaries - https://youtu.be/gWR7l0soBoQ?si=l_22r54Bi63J-zLM 👉 Building Self-Confidence | Drtonicooper.com https://youtu.be/3XQQ7dKyYkk?si=U6IBfCL4JejK4I2Q ✅ About Dr. Toni Cooper Channel: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you move towards wholeness in spirit, soul, and body. #emotionalwellness #stressrelief #resilience #anxietymanagement #copingstrategies #personalgrowth Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. © Dr. Toni Cooper

There are important principles that can help people break free from their past and from a victim mindset. Today I explain how and guide you in a prayer to break free.

0:00" Introduction 0:56" Determination to break free 4:32" Understanding your coping style and #learnedhelplessness 6:50" Living in Crisis Mode 9:22" Changing how YOU view Yourself 11:20" Vows & Judgments 15:53" Guided prayer to release vows and judgments ✅ Subscribe To My YouTube Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Get the workbook on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/ 👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/ ✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/ 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU 👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg 👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc 👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeing Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. © Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

A fun interview with SheRa Renee from the Blemished Beauty podcast where we look at the impact of childhood trauma on our romantic choices and 3 unhealthy patterns in relationships. 0:00" Introduction 1:00" How I got interested in trauma recovery 3:30" 3 Patterns and Relationship Mistakes 10:50" Know who you are 12:10" Dating, Job Interviews, Romance & Sex 18:40" Self-Esteem and Relationships 25:20" Closing ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Leave me a Google Review: https://g.page/r/CfohxWMEUP7REAI/review 👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/ 👉 Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antoinette-t-cooper 👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/ ✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/ 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU 👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg 👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc 👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeing Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use.

In this video podcast, I explore concepts from nature and the Bible that help us understand how to find peace and navigate chaos. 0:00" Introduction 0:58" Pictures of peace and safety in nature 2:40" Pictures of how Jesus can be our safe place 4:30" Comforting images from the Bible 9:50" Learning how to lean into Jesus and draw from His PEACE 13:22" Prayer of Blessing ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Leave me a Google Review: https://g.page/r/CfohxWMEUP7REAI/review 👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/ 👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/ ✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/ 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU 👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg 👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc 👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below: #christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeing Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. © Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

This episode explains the power of words that can bring us peace and strength to move forward from the difficulties in life. 0:00" Introduction to the Episode 1:00" Understanding the POWER of words in nature 4:40" The Bible teaches us about the POWER of the Word of God to create change 7:00" Words of strength and healing in a prayer for you 10:27" The Christian life is supernatural power 12:21" Leave me a voicemail of how you unloaded some baggage! 🧳https://www.speakpipe.com/LifeWithoutBaggage ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Leave me a Google Review: https://g.page/r/CfohxWMEUP7REAI/review 👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/ 👉 Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antoinette-t-cooper 👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/ ✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/ 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU 👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg 👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc 👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1#christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeing Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. © Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage

Does childhood stress matter if you are an adult and you've forgiven everyone in your past? This episode explores the answer to this question about the impact of childhood stress (i. e., experiences prior to age 18) on adult coping skills. There is also a quiz to help you understand how much stress you may have had in your childhood.

0:00" Introduction

0:55" Karl is dropping off some of his baggage

1:55" Childhood stress and adult depression, anxiety, helplessness, coping, and physical health.

8:51" The Adverse Childhood Experiences Scale

12:58" Steps to improve adult mental health

15:20" Prayer for the listener

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc

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Some tips for people 50+ who want to age well. This is a radio interview with Jeanne Destro from WAKR. ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Important Links: 👉 Audio Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Books on Amazon: https://bit.ly/48x5M2V 👉 Leave me a Google Review: https://g.page/r/CfohxWMEUP7REAI/review 👉 Website: https://www.drtonicooper.com/ 👉 Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/antoinette-t-cooper 👉 FREE eBook https://www.drtonicooper.com/1524-2/ ✅ Stay Connected With Me: 👉 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonicooper777/ 👉 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drtonicooper/ ============================== ✅ Other Videos You Might Be Interested In Watching: 👉 How Can I Overcome Anxiety and Helplessness? - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYIwurXSeYU 👉 Why You're Feeling Stuck: Unlocking Personal Growth - Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEsETKC9Kgg 👉 Understanding Narcissistic Harm: Christian Counseling | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Up6PPRPtnsc 👉 Boundaries & Trauma: Christian Counseling - (Boundaries Part 3) | Drtonicooper.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=594cdCZBFLA ============================= ✅ About Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage: This channel contains the insights I share from my Christian counseling practice that can help you overcome trauma, build coping skills, and strengthen your faith. For Collaboration and Business inquiries, please use the contact information below: 📩 Email: drestherking@gmail.com 🔔 Subscribe to my YouTube channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/@ChristianCounselingforaL-gz3mu/?sub_confirmation=1 ===================== #christiancounseling #copingskills #mentalhealth #understandingbehavior #psychology #spiritualmotivationalspeakers #christianperspective #lifewithoutbaggage #mentalwellbeing Disclaimer: We do not accept any liability for any loss or damage which is incurred from you acting or not acting as a result of reading any of our publications. You acknowledge that you use the information we provide at your own risk. Do your own research. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. © Christian Counseling for a Life Without Baggage