In this episode of Mother Mayhem, join me as one daughter walks you through her path toward lower contact with narcissistic parents.

Many of you have reached out asking for advice on how to manage relationships with abusive parents, especially when considering lower or no contact, and in this episode, we dig into the real-life process of making that shift.

It’s not an easy decision, and it’s certainly not something that happens overnight. Trauma brain, emotional conditioning, and the weight of years of dysfunctional family dynamics can make it feel impossible. But her journey proves that taking it one day at a time is not only possible, it’s how we start to reclaim our emotional safety and peace.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• The steps to take it one day at a time when considering lower contact with narcissistic or emotionally limited parents

• How to trust your nervous system in making decisions that prioritize your well-being

• Real talk about the difficult emotions that come with setting boundaries with toxic parents

• A daughter’s personal story of healing and choosing herself despite the pain of family rejection
  

Whether you’re considering going lower contact, have already made that decision, or are simply exploring what that might look like, this episode is for you.

Setting boundaries with toxic parents is never easy, but our daughter’s story will remind you that you are not alone, and that taking small steps toward healing and self-protection can make all the difference.

Healing from narcissistic abuse takes time, effort, and the courage to trust yourself and your decisions. You have the right to protect your peace, and you have the right to choose what’s best for you—no matter how difficult it may feel in the moment.

Resources mentioned in the episode:

• Mayhem Daughters - Join our community for ongoing support and guidance as you navigate your healing journey.

• Therapeutic Support Options :

  Tuesday Group

  Thursday Group Waitlist

  Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things

In this episode of Mother Mayhem, we dive deep into the emotional triggers that often surface during trauma recovery—specifically anger, jealousy, and rejection.

As daughters of narcissistic and emotionally limited mothers, these emotions can feel overwhelming, but they’re not just random feelings—they are powerful tools that can guide your healing process.

We talk about why anger is not only valid but crucial in the recovery process, serving as a signal that something is wrong and that boundaries have been crossed.

You’ll learn how jealousy often appears as a sign of unmet desires and needs, and why rejection can tap into old wounds, making it feel like a personal failure, even when it’s not about you at all.

Understanding and working with these emotions is a key part of reclaiming your peace, setting healthy boundaries, and growing in your recovery from narcissistic abuse. This episode is for anyone who’s been overwhelmed by these feelings and wants to understand how they fit into the larger healing process.

In this episode, we discuss:

• How anger is a tool in trauma recovery and why it’s a sign that something needs to change.
  

• The role of jealousy in healing, and what it reveals about your desires and unmet needs.
  

• Why rejection feels so painful, especially when it mirrors the neglect and emotional abandonment from your past.
  

• How to start recognizing emotional triggers as cues for setting healthier boundaries.
  

• Why feeling these emotions is a necessary part of healing, and how they can help you create a life that honors you.
  

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• Mayhem Daughters – A supportive, trauma-informed community for daughters of narcissistic mothers.

• Tuesday Group – Join our weekly peer support group where we explore healing, emotional safety, and recovery together. [Join the Tuesday Group here] (insert link)

• Thursday Group Waitlist: If you are interested in joining our Thursday Evening Group for Daughters

  
  

  
  
  
  

If you’ve been struggling with jealousy, anger, or rejection in your healing journey, this episode will help you make sense of those emotions and reclaim your sense of self. Remember, these emotions are signals—not obstacles—and understanding them can empower you to set stronger, healthier boundaries in your life.

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In this powerful episode of Mother Mayhem, you’ll hear the story of a brave Mayhem Daughter who has been a regular in our Tuesday Group. While we can’t take credit for all that she has overcome, we are incredibly proud to be part of her healing journey.

This daughter shares her raw and transformative experience of growing up with a narcissistic mother. Her story highlights the complexity of surviving emotional, psychological, and physical abuse and the long road to healing.

In her words, she reveals how she faced betrayal, neglect, and manipulation by the person who should have been her protector.

Join us as we dive into the reality of narcissistic abuse, how it shapes our sense of self, and the immense strength it takes to choose healing.

This episode is not just about survival, but about reclaiming one’s life on their own terms.

You’ll gain insights into how to navigate your own healing path, and how community support can play a pivotal role in your journey toward reclaiming your power.

In this episode, we discuss:

• How narcissistic abuse impacts a daughter’s sense of self and relationships.
  

• The emotional and psychological toll of growing up with a narcissistic and emotionally unavailable mother.
  

• Why the word resilience can often minimize the deep unfairness of surviving abuse.
  

• How to honor your healing journey, even when it feels like an uphill battle.
  

• The importance of finding a supportive community to help you heal and grow.
  

Links mentioned in this episode:

• Tuesday Group: A weekly support group for daughters of narcissistic and emotionally limited mothers.
  

• Thursday Evening Group Waitlist: For East Coast listeners and others who prefer an evening group.
  

• Mayhem Daughters: Join our trauma-informed, healing community.

  
  

  Also mentioned: Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things