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  • NTM 524: Pressure, Predictability and the Death of Desire
    2025/07/14

    So many couples find themselves tangled in the same painful dance: pressure, predictability, and the slow death of desire.

    In this episode, we’re unpacking why your sex life isn’t just about sex - it’s the meeting place of both your worlds. Why men often feel sex as devotion (and rejection like a dagger), why women need connection to even want sex, and how survival mode and arousal simply can’t coexist.

    We’ll explore how to stop counting acts and start cultivating an erotic climate where your ‘yes’ becomes inevitable - not out of duty, but from deep, authentic desire.
    Because your erotic self is still there. Vibrant. Alive. Waiting for you to make space.

    In this episode we discuss:
    — Why a man telling a woman how she should experience sex is a dangerous slope
    — The kernel of truth that stings (and why it lands)
    — How most men feel sex as devotion, and why rejection cuts so deep
    — Why your sex life isn’t just his or yours, it’s a shared garden you both must tend
    — That sex is anything that makes you feel alive, soft, open, connected - not just penetration
    — How pressure and predictability strangle desire
    — Why survival always wins over arousal, and what to do if you have responsive desire
    — How to stop keeping score and build an erotic climate where your ‘yes’ is inevitable
    — And why choosing your pleasure is radical, dismantling the old martyr mother story once and for all


    Want support on this journey?Come join us inside Honey Club - where we melt these blocks together, one breath, one practice, one deep remembering at a time. Find out more at julietenner.love or visit: https://julie-tenner.newzenler.com/courses/honeyclub


    Reach out to Bridget for 1:1 coaching - bridgetwood.life

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    29 分
  • NTM 523: Redefining Capacity Through Motherhood
    2025/06/30

    What if your capacity wasn’t a measure of your worth? In this episode, we dive deep into motherhood as the ultimate redefinition of capacity — where contraction and expansion dance together, and holding more often comes with the relief of letting go.

    We explore the emotional labor mothers invisibly carry, the myth of the perfect mother who endlessly gives, and what happens when over-functioning becomes your normal. Because capacity isn’t static; it stretches and recoils, it asks you to meet yourself honestly in your edges.

    What if your children’s growth was as much about your own? What if tending to your limits was the most loving thing you could do for them? This conversation is a gentle, honest reckoning with how we hold, share, and sometimes spill over.

    In this episode we discuss:

    - Why capacity isn’t a fixed trait: it contracts and expands, often in response to life’s demands.
    - The hidden energy of emotional labor in motherhood, from preempting needs to managing outcomes.
    - How overriding your own limits becomes normalised, and how that leads to cycles of burnout.
    - The relief that can come with hard changes, and how your kids asking more of you can reveal where your capacity truly sits.
    - The tension between what your kids “should” do and what they can realistically handle.
    - The power of saying “I need a moment to regroup” instead of pushing through.
    - How voicing your needs creates room for others to respond and support you.
    - Releasing the perfect mother myth to honour what you actually have space for.
    - Why sustainable family life requires equitable emotional labor — teamwork rooted in well-being, not sacrifice.
    - The concept of emotional currency in relationships: building deposits so you can both withdraw when needed.
    - The importance of checking in with your nervous system and giving yourself genuine rest breaks, not just bracing for the next tsunami.


    Want support on this journey?Come join us inside Honey Club — where we melt these blocks together, one breath, one practice, one deep remembering at a time. Find out more at julietenner.love or visit: https://julie-tenner.newzenler.com/courses/honeyclub


    Reach out to Bridget for 1:1 coaching - bridgetwood.life

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    27 分
  • NTM 522: What It Really Took to Mother a Dream into Reality
    2025/06/23

    This is the story behind the Instagram post. The truth of what it took of Julie; emotionally, energetically, and relationally - to walk beside her son Heath as he chased a dream that felt impossibly far away at times. From the heartbreaks to the breakthroughs, from holding the vision when he couldn’t, to surrendering control when she desperately wanted to fix things.

    This episode is a raw, tender, and deeply honest look at mothering through uncertainty, staying attuned while letting go, and the quiet devotion it takes to raise a dreamer — without losing yourself in the process.

    In this episode we discuss:
    - What it means to support your child’s dream without making it your own
    - Navigating heartbreak, setbacks, and the emotional weight of the unknown
    - The line between co-creating and over-functioning as a parent
    - How to hold attunement, belief, and boundaries at the same time
    - The transformation of letting go when your child begins to fly

    Whether you’re raising a dreamer, walking through a difficult season, or simply needing to feel less alone in the stretch of motherhood - this one’s for you.


    Want support on this journey?Come join us inside Honey Club — where we melt these blocks together, one breath, one practice, one deep remembering at a time. Find out more at julietenner.love or visit: https://julie-tenner.newzenler.com/courses/honeyclub


    Reach out to Bridget for 1:1 coaching - bridgetwood.life

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    53 分
  • NTM 521: Unblock Your Sensuality: The 7 Hidden Patterns Keeping You Disconnected from Your Body + Desire
    2025/06/16

    If your sensuality feels distant, your desire feels flat, or you look in the mirror and barely recognise yourself… this episode is your homecoming. In this powerful conversation, Julie walks you through the 7 most common (and surprising) blocks to feminine sensual energy — and how to begin melting them with softness, embodiment, and truth.

    This isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about returning to you.
    Whether you’ve been stuck in overgiving, feeling shame around your desire, or struggling to receive - there’s something here for every woman ready to reclaim her radiance.


    In this episode, we discuss:
    * The real reason you might feel numb, disconnected, or beige inside your own skin
    * Why pleasure has nothing to do with performance (and how to feel instead of fake)
    * The hidden cost of being “the strong one” and how it shuts down your sensuality
    * What overthinking, independence, and identity loss have to do with feminine energy
    * 7 blocks that disconnect you from your magnetism (and how to shift them gently)
    * How to begin feeling safe, turned on, and alive in your body again, even if it’s been years


    Want support on this journey?Come join us inside Honey Club — where we melt these blocks together, one breath, one practice, one deep remembering at a time. Find out more at julietenner.love or visit: https://julie-tenner.newzenler.com/courses/honeyclub


    Reach out to Bridget for 1:1 coaching - bridgetwood.life

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    1 時間 8 分
  • NTM 520: Whole Woman, Whole Life: Living in Alignment with Your Body, Home and Heart
    2025/06/09

    If your life feels chaotic, cluttered, or constantly exhausting…it’s not just “life”; its information. In this episode, we unpack how your body, home, and calendar are mirrors of your nervous system (and what they’re trying to tell you).

    We talk about what it means to stop performing, start listening, and live from truth - not just obligation.

    You’ll hear why saying no is an act of power, how to tell the difference between burnout and misalignment, and why choosing ease isn’t lazy; it’s leadership. This is your permission to stop tolerating what drains you and start building a life that actually feeds you.

    In this episode, we discuss:
    • What your cluttered home or overflowing calendar is really telling you about your inner world
    • How your nervous system shows up in your schedule, and how to stop trading your life for things that don’t feel meaningful
    • The difference between living a life that looks good, and one that actually feels good
    • Why saying no can be the most self-honouring thing you do (even if it’s uncomfortable)
    • How to tell the difference between being in alignment and being in people-pleasing
    • What happens when you stop tolerating what drains you, and start choosing what nourishes you
    • Why you’re not a victim of your life, you’re the author of it (and how to take the pen back)
    • How to stop gaslighting yourself when things feel off, and let yourself feel what’s real instead of managing it away
    • Why burnout isn’t your default, it’s your body calling you home to your desire


    Honey Club
    Get your irresistible game on. A place to explore YOUR sensuality, feminine energy, uplevel your couple-communication and all the blocks you have to deepening into surrender and connection.
    https://julie-tenner.newzenler.com/courses/honeyclub


    The Mama Reset
    Feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or like you've lost yourself in motherhood? The Mama Reset is your invitation to pause, reclaim your sense of self, and step into this next chapter with clarity, confidence, and ease.https://bridget-wood.newzenler.com/courses/the-mama-reset

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    27 分
  • NTM 519: Present, Not Perfect: The Art of Mindful Mothering (Even on the Hard Days)
    2025/06/02

    What if your presence was enough? In this episode, we unpack the beauty and bravery of showing up; not perfectly, but mindfully, especially on the days that stretch you thin. You’ll hear why your nervous system is your parenting compass, how tiny moments of attunement matter more than constant doing, and why choosing softness is not weakness but a radical act of love. This is for every mother who’s felt touched out, emotionally tapped, or caught in the spiral of doing more to feel like enough. Let this be your exhale...a return to yourself and your child.

    In this episode, we discuss:
    • Why being present (even when messy or tired) is more powerful than doing it all perfectly
    • How to stay connected when you’re touched out, triggered, or stretched too thin
    • The tiny, doable moments of connection that shift everything (without needing to overhaul your day)
    • What your nervous system is really communicating to your kids - and how to anchor it
    • Why your calm isn’t in your words, it’s in your body
    • The emotional imprint we carry from our own mothers, and how it shows up in our parenting
    • How to let go of the guilt around rest and reclaim it as necessary, not indulgent
    • What changes when you stop performing motherhood and start trusting yourself
    • How to meet competing priorities without feeling like you’re failing at all of them
    • Letting ease be your quiet rebellion, and why that’s the most healing thing you can do for you and your children


    Honey Club
    Get your irresistible game on. A place to explore YOUR sensuality, feminine energy, uplevel your couple-communication and all the blocks you have to deepening into surrender and connection.
    https://julie-tenner.newzenler.com/courses/honeyclub


    The Mama Reset
    Feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or like you've lost yourself in motherhood? The Mama Reset is your invitation to pause, reclaim your sense of self, and step into this next chapter with clarity, confidence, and ease.https://bridget-wood.newzenler.com/courses/the-mama-reset

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    28 分
  • NTM 518: Walking through grief with our kids and ourselves
    2025/05/26

    In this tender and deeply personal episode, we share the story of saying goodbye to Julie’s beloved family dog, Ruby, after nearly 16 years. This isn’t just a conversation about losing a pet — it’s a raw and honest look at the wildness of grief, the silence it leaves behind, and what it means to walk through that pain as a parent, while still holding space for your children.

    We explore the complexity of grieving while still showing up for life, and how loss doesn’t arrive in isolation - it often opens the door to every other goodbye we’ve ever tucked away.

    This episode is for anyone navigating the quiet heartbreaks, the unexpected waves, and the tender task of parenting through it all.

    In this episode, we discuss:
    • What it’s like to lose a pet who’s been with you through every chapter
    • The layered experience of grief - and why it’s never just about this one loss
    • How to let yourself feel the pain and still show up for your kids’ needs
    • Supporting children through grief in honest, age-appropriate, heart-centred ways
    • How grief cracks you open - and why that’s not something to fear
    • The sacredness of rituals, memory, and letting yourself be witnessed in sorrow
    • Why grief isn’t punishment - it’s proof that love mattered


    Resentment Decoder
    A free guide and audios to help you understand where that frustration is really coming from, what it’s costing you, and how to start shifting the pattern—without blowing everything up.
    https://www.julietenner.love/resentment


    Honey Club

    Get your irresistible game on. A place to explore YOUR sensuality, feminine energy, uplevel your couple-communication and all the blocks you have to deepening into surrender and connection.
    https://julie-tenner.newzenler.com/courses/honeyclub


    The Mama Reset
    Feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or like you've lost yourself in motherhood? The Mama Reset is your invitation to pause, reclaim your sense of self, and step into this next chapter with clarity, confidence, and ease.https://bridget-wood.newzenler.com/courses/the-mama-reset

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    46 分
  • NTM 517: What it really means to come home to your feminine, and why you should
    2025/05/19

    You’ve been strong.
    Capable.
    Getting it done.
    But somewhere between the doing and the holding-it-all-together… you lost touch with you.
    You’re tired of performing.
    You miss feeling.
    You crave softness — but you don’t know how to stop bracing.
    Maybe you’ve heard about “the feminine” and thought, what even is that?
    Is it sexy? Soft? Passive? Woo-woo?

    Here’s what we want you to know:
    Coming home to your feminine has nothing to do with how you look — and everything to do with how deeply you feel.
    It’s not about losing your power. It’s about finding a version of it that doesn’t cost you your body, your joy, or your peace.
    This episode is for the woman who’s curious… and ready to come home to herself.

    In this episode, we explore:

    • What “the feminine” actually is — in your body, your energy, and your everyday life
    • Why mindset work will only take you so far — and what your body’s been trying to tell you all along
    • How surrender isn’t weakness — but a wildly powerful (and scary) practice for the woman who’s always in control
    • Why living cyclically matters — and what shifts when you stop overriding your needs to keep up
    • The difference between performing and inhabiting your life — and how to reconnect with what feels like you again


    Resentment Decoder
    A free guide and audios to help you understand where that frustration is really coming from, what it’s costing you, and how to start shifting the pattern—without blowing everything up.
    https://www.julietenner.love/resentment


    Honey Club

    Get your irresistible game on. A place to explore YOUR sensuality, feminine energy, uplevel your couple-communication and all the blocks you have to deepening into surrender and connection.
    https://julie-tenner.newzenler.com/courses/honeyclub


    The Mama Reset
    Feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or like you've lost yourself in motherhood? The Mama Reset is your invitation to pause, reclaim your sense of self, and step into this next chapter with clarity, confidence, and ease.https://bridget-wood.newzenler.com/courses/the-mama-reset

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    27 分