Hi Everyone!

In this episode, we explore the serious consequences of harboring unforgiveness. While unforgiveness is often seen as a justified response to hurt or betrayal, it is a destructive force that can affect your physical health, mental well-being, and spiritual life. We delve into how unforgiveness can manifest in chronic health issues, emotional disturbances, and spiritual disconnection. We also discuss the transformative power of forgiveness, guided by Scripture, and how it leads to healing and freedom.

Key Points:

1. The Nature of Unforgiveness:

- Unforgiveness is not just a psychological state but a spiritual condition that distances us from God.

- Holding onto anger and resentment traps us in a cycle of negative emotions with far-reaching consequences.

1. Impact on Physical Health:

- Unforgiveness triggers the body's stress response, leading to chronic health issues such as high blood pressure, weakened immune function, and increased risk of heart disease and diabetes.

- Personal testimony: Childhood stress from abuse led to lifelong gut issues and chronic health problems, even after forgiving the offender.

1. Impact on Mental Health:

- Unforgiveness can contribute to mental health disorders like depression and anxiety, trapping the mind in a negative loop.

- Continuous rumination over past hurts prevents joy, peace, and contentment.

1. Impact on Spiritual Life:

- Unforgiveness creates a barrier between us and God, hindering spiritual growth and answered prayers.

- Key Scriptures:

- *Matthew 6:12, 14-15 (ESV)* - Forgiveness is essential for receiving God's forgiveness.

- *Matthew 18:21-35 (ESV)* - Parable of the Unforgiving Servant emphasizes the severity of unforgiveness.

- *Ephesians 4:31-32 (ESV)* - Paul urges believers to let go of bitterness and embody forgiveness.

1. The Power of Forgiveness:

- Forgiveness leads to physical healing, mental peace, and spiritual freedom.

- Key Scriptures:

- *Romans 3:23 (ESV)* - We all need God's grace.

- *Colossians 3:13 (NIV)* - Forgive as the Lord forgave you.

- *Luke 23:34 (ESV)* - Jesus' example of forgiveness on the cross.

1. The Role of the Holy Spirit:

- The Holy Spirit empowers believers to forgive, even when it seems impossible.

- Key Scripture:

- *Galatians 5:22-23 (ESV)* - The fruit of the Spirit includes qualities crucial for forgiveness.

- *Philippians 4:13 (ESV)* - "I can do all things through Him who strengthens me," including forgiveness.

1. Practical Steps to Embrace Forgiveness:

- Acknowledge the pain.

- Seek God's help.

- Release the debt.

- Practice empathy.

- Let go of resentment.

- Focus on God's forgiveness.

Conclusion:

Unforgiveness has severe consequences for both the body and soul, but through forgiveness, we can experience healing and freedom. With the Holy Spirit's help, we can overcome the pain and walk in the footsteps of Christ, embodying His love in the world.

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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Hi everyone!

In this deeply personal episode, I explore the often hidden and rarely discussed topic of being offended with God. Through my personal story of spiritual wandering and eventual divine revelation, we delve into the impact of harboring offense, especially when it’s directed toward God. If you’ve ever felt abandoned, disappointed, or hurt by unmet expectations in your faith journey, this episode is for you.

Key Takeaways:

1. The Silent Struggle: Discover how unresolved pain and lost dreams can lead to a spiritual desert, where we find ourselves lost and distant from God.
2. Naming the Offense:Learn about the importance of recognizing when our true source of pain and anger is directed towards God, even when it’s hard to admit.
3. The Invisible Prison: Understand how offense can grow unnoticed, much like a hidden illness, affecting our spiritual health and relationship with God.
4. Divine Revelation: Hear about the moment of awakening, where the realization of personal responsibility in harboring offense against God begins the healing process.
5. The Path to Healing: Explore the steps of acknowledging, forgiving, and inviting God into the deep wounds of the heart for true spiritual healing.
6. Seeing God’s Heart: Shift your perspective from what God does to who He is, allowing for a deeper and more intimate connection with Him.

Related Scripture:

Ephesians 4:31-32 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

Numbers 14:18

"The LORD is slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love, forgiving iniquity and transgression, but he will by no means clear the guilty.”

Psalm 103:10–12

"He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities".

Psalm 86:5

"You, Lord, are forgiving and good, abounding in love to all who call to you".

Daniel 9:9

"The Lord our God is merciful and forgiving, even though we have rebelled against him".

1 John 1:9

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Discussion Questions:

1. Have you ever found yourself offended with God? How did it impact your faith journey?
2. What steps can you take to begin the process of forgiving God and healing from past hurts?
3. How can changing your perspective from what God does to who God is affect your faith and relationship with Him?

Resources Mentioned:

- *My Utmost for His Highest* by Oswald Chambers

If this episode resonated with you, take some time this week to reflect on any hidden offenses you might be holding against God. Journal your thoughts, pray for revelation, and ask God to heal those deep wounds. Don’t forget to share this episode with someone who might benefit from hearing this message.

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Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #healingfromdivorce #RiseAndReclaim #PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth

Hi everyone!

Episode Summary:

In this episode, we explore the deep and often overwhelming feelings of abandonment that can arise during and after a divorce. These emotions can be incredibly challenging to navigate, but understanding their roots and finding ways to address them is key to healing.

Key Points Discussed:

Understanding Abandonment:

It’s important to recognize that feelings of abandonment can stem from many life experiences, not just divorce. As you reflect on these moments, whether it’s the fear of being lost as a child or the deep hurt of betrayal by those closest to you, it’s crucial to understand that these emotions are valid and need acknowledgment.

The Spiritual Perspective:

You might wonder, "Where was God when I felt abandoned?" This question is one of the most profound and difficult to answer. It echoes the feelings of Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane, where He too felt betrayed and abandoned, even by His closest friends and His Father. Yet, His suffering had a purpose: to ensure that we would never be truly forsaken.

Healing and Moving Forward:

We discuss practical steps you can take to begin the healing process, from seeking support from loved ones or professionals to engaging in spiritual practices that resonate with you.

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

Resources Mentioned:

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Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #1Thessalonians213 #RiseAndReclaim #PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth

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Are you feeling the sting of loneliness after a divorce? I've been there, and so has our special guest Toni Thrash, Host of the Start Your Comeback Podcast. Join us as we delve into the journey of healing and rebuilding life after divorce from a Christian perspective.

Guest Bio:

Toni Thrash understands the unique challenges women face when trying to align their faith with their transitions. With a wealth of experience, she has helped hundreds of women create clear and compelling game plans, identify strategic priorities, and build a supportive community to navigate the complexities of life transitions and realize their dreams.

A former volleyball, basketball, and tennis coach, Toni found her calling in life coaching, where she excels in building relationships and fostering trust by accepting individuals for who they are, regardless of their circumstances or success levels.

Living in Frisco, TX, Toni is a dedicated mother to Taylor (and his wife Jordan) and Cameron. She is also a proud grandmother to 14-month-old Barrett. Her podcast, Start Your Comeback, is available on all major podcast platforms.

Toni holds a BS degree in Human Development and Family Studies from Texas Tech University and is a Certified Life Coach Practitioner from the Certified Coaching Federation (CCF) since 2015. She shares her insights and advice on her blog at tonithrash.com.

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Listen Now:

Tune in to this insightful episode to learn how to rise and reclaim your life after divorce, while staying true to your faith.

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We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

Find me on Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

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My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here:

https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

Website and Blog link:

https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

Are you feeling the sting of loneliness after a divorce? I've been there, and so has our special guest Toni Thrash, Host of the Start Your Comeback Podcast. Join us as we delve into the journey of healing and rebuilding life after divorce from a Christian perspective.

Guest Bio: Toni Thrash understands the unique challenges women face when trying to align their faith with their transitions. With a wealth of experience, she has helped hundreds of women create clear and compelling game plans, identify strategic priorities, and build a supportive community to navigate the complexities of life transitions and realize their dreams.

A former volleyball, basketball, and tennis coach, Toni found her calling in life coaching, where she excels in building relationships and fostering trust by accepting individuals for who they are, regardless of their circumstances or success levels.

Living in Frisco, TX, Toni is a dedicated mother to Taylor (and his wife Jordan) and Cameron. She is also a proud grandmother to 14-month-old Barrett. Her podcast, Start Your Comeback, is available on all major podcast platforms.

Toni holds a BS degree in Human Development and Family Studies from Texas Tech University and is a Certified Life Coach Practitioner from the Certified Coaching Federation (CCF) since 2015. She shares her insights and advice on her blog at tonithrash.com.

Special Offer: Sign up for Toni's newsletter to receive a life-giving PDF called "4 Steps to Overcoming Doubt."

Listen Now: Tune in to this insightful episode to learn how to rise and reclaim your life after divorce, while staying true to your faith.

Toni Thrash's Contact Information:

t.thrash@fortitudelifecoach.com

https://www.instagram.com/tonithrash

https://www.ToniThrash.com

Find Dana Williams on Social Media and check out her Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?"

Find me on Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

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Website and Blog link:

https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

Hi everyone!

Weålcome to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast where you will discover how to rise, live, and reclaim your life as a Divorced Christian. I’m your host, Dana Williams, and I have a heart to help those navigating the sandstorm of divorce and the aftermath of pain and judgment.

Episode Overview:

You will find a few episodes that are just listed as “prayer for … and then the need” I did this so that you had a place to go if you needed prayer in these areas but didn't know how to pray, or that you wanted somebody to pray over you. I also put a short encouragement before each prayer.

I want you to feel free to come back to these as often as you need them. You will find the scriptures used in each prayer below should you need them.

Blessings,

Dana

Scriptures used in the prayers

Psalm 84:11(NKJV)

Matthew 6:33(NKJV)

But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

Proverbs 10:3(NKJV)

The Lord does not let the righteous go hungry, but he thwarts the craving of the wicked.

2 The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer; My God, my [a]strength, in whom I will trust; My shield and the [b]horn of my salvation, my stronghold.

7 They will have no fear of bad news; their hearts are steadfast, trusting in the Lord.

11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.

Ephesians 3:20 (NIV)

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever!

Join Us:

Subscribe to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast to continue your journey of healing and restoration. New episodes are released weekly, providing you with the encouragement and support you need.

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Find me on Social Media:

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Website and Blog link:

https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #1Thessalonians213 #RiseAndReclaim #PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth

Hi everyone!

Welcome to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast where you will discover how to rise, live, and reclaim your life as a Divorced Christian. I’m your host, Dana Williams, and I have a heart to help those navigating the sandstorm of divorce and the aftermath of pain and judgment.

Episode Overview:

You will find a few episodes that are just listed as “prayer for … and then the need” I did this so that you had a place to go if you needed prayer in these areas but didn't know how to pray, or that you wanted somebody to pray over you. I also put a short encouragement before each prayer.

I want you to feel free to come back to these as often as you need them. You will find the scriptures used in each prayer below should you need them.

Blessings,

Dana

Scriptures used in the prayers:

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

The Lord is my light and my salvation— whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging.

The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

Join Us:

Subscribe to the Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast to continue your journey of healing and restoration. New episodes are released weekly, providing you with the encouragement and support you need.

Links & Resources:

Connect with Us:

- Website: www.redeemed-identity.com

- Podcast: Rise & Reclaim After Divorce Podcast ( https://www.riseandreclaimpodcast.com)

Find me on Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/

https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity

My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf

Website and Blog link:

https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

Tags: #DivorcedChristian #Healing #Faith #1Thessalonians213 #RiseAndReclaim#PrayingGodsWord #SpiritualGrowth