Have you ever found yourself wishing your partner would change—just a little? What if true love meant never trying to change them at all?

As we celebrate Valentine’s week, let’s dive into what real love looks like. Inspired by The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz, this episode challenges us to reflect on whether we truly accept the people in our lives—or whether we’re subtly (or not so subtly) trying to change them.

And how does this all connect to sobriety? Because when we stop trying to control others, we free ourselves from frustration, resentment, and—yes—some of the biggest drinking triggers.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

✅ Why trying to change others could mean you don’t really like them (ouch, right?)

✅ The powerful secret to changing people—without actually trying to change them

✅ How radical acceptance leads to more peace, better relationships, and stronger sobriety

Hit play now and discover how embracing true acceptance can transform your relationships and your alcohol-free life. 💕

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On this podcast, we explore the journey to get sober, embracing a sober mindset and the path to sobriety through sober living and healthy living practices, offering insights on how to give up alcohol, overcome alcoholism and dependency, and focus on self-improvement in an alcohol-free life.