If you’ve been told to "just be more feminine" to attract a high-quality man—this episode is your permission slip to roll your eyes and delete that advice forever.

In this episode, Hilary unpacks the real meaning of feminine energy for strong, high-functioning women who are tired of being told to play small. She’s calling BS on the idea that you need to be more “demure,” wear more pink, or act helpless so a man can feel useful. (Spoiler: You don’t.)

Episode Highlights:

• Why the “let him take the lead” narrative is secretly sabotaging your love life
• What feminine energy actually looks like when you’re powerful, grounded, and self-sourced
• The childhood beliefs that locked you into over-functioning and under-receiving
• One 30-second shift to move from drive into flow (no crystals required)

Episode Breakdown:

• 00:00 Feminine Energy Myths
• 01:37 Misconception #1:You need to Let Men Help You
• 02:15 Misconception #2:You Need to be Demure
• 03:31 The Deeper Truth About Feminine Energy
• 05:20 Becoming Magnetic in Love
• 06:36 Queens Don’t Chase

Ready to stop playing damsel and start sitting on your damn throne?

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They run companies, manage households, juggle a million responsibilities—and still find themselves accepting the bare minimum in love. Why?

In this Summer of Love kickoff, Hilary calls out the quiet epidemic of high-achieving women settling for less in their relationships. From doing all the emotional labor to accepting the bare minimum in return, Hilary spells out what “crumbs” really look like, and why so many women accept them without even realizing it.

The truth? Starving women eat crumbs. If you’ve spent a lifetime feeling emotionally underfed, even the smallest scrap of affection can feel like a meal. But that won’t get you the love you want, and it’s not your fault. The fix? Stop looking outward, and start filling yourself up from within.

If you’re ready to quit the chase and start receiving real love, this episode is your wake-up call.

Episode Highlights:

• The subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs you're accepting crumbs
• Why blaming men misses the point entirely
• How emotional deprivation starts early—and shows up in dating
• The difference between chasing love and attracting it
• What it actually takes to become the woman who won’t settle

Episode Breakdown:

• [00:00] Why Strong Women Settle for Crumbs in Love
• [00:56] Signs You're Settling for Less in Relationships
• [02:10] How It Feels When You Accept Less Than You Deserve
• [03:01] The Real Problem Isn't Him—It's You
• [04:07] How Early Experiences Shape Your Standards
• [05:32] The Solution: Heal, Fill, and Stop Settling
• [07:10] Learn How to Get What You Want

Stop chasing scraps and start receiving the whole damn cake. Hilary shows you how to go from starving to self-fed—and why you are the only one who can do it.

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Think you're doing all the work but still stuck? This episode might explain why.

Hilary breaks down the book that changed everything for her — and no, it wasn’t a psychology textbook, a trauma certification, or another high-ticket coaching program. It was an 85-page book from 1910: The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles.

It’s not about money. It’s about mastering your mind, and understanding how your thoughts are either creating what you want... or reinforcing what you don’t.

Episode Highlights:

• Why therapy, mindset work, and affirmations didn’t create lasting change
• What “thinking truth regardless of appearances” really means (and why it’s so hard)
• How to stop being a passive observer of your life and start becoming the architect
• The real reason action without belief keeps you stuck
• Why making the most of yourself is not selfish — it’s your responsibility

Episode Breakdown:

• [00:00] The Science of Getting Rich: What You’ve Been Missing
• [01:14] Hilary’s Journey With the Book That Changed Everything
• [03:54] How Your Thoughts Become Your Life
• [05:52] Why Belief Must Come Before Proof
• [07:27] Embodying the Version of You Who Has It
• [08:41] Why Personal Growth Is Non-Negotiable
• [11:10] Your Mind Is Your Greatest Asset
• [12:14] Learn More + Work With Hilary

This is the episode to press play on if you’ve been “doing the work” but not seeing the results.

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– Read the book: The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace Wattles

Ever wonder why some women seem to have a magnetic pull for love, success, and good fortune? It’s not luck, it’s energy. In this episode, Hilary Silver breaks down the prosperity codes high-vibe women live by… and the 7 low-vibe habits you need to drop like yesterday’s leftovers if you want to get everything you say you want.

Episode Highlights:

• Why complaining without action drags you down
• The ego trap of blame and excuses
• What victim energy really sounds like—and how to rise from it
• How to stop chasing approval and own your worth
• The entitlement trap vs. empowered action
• What happens when you keep avoiding hard conversations
• The quiet control of unsolicited advice (and how to drop it)

Episode Breakdown:

• [00:00] Introduction
• [01:17] Importance of High Vibe Behaviors
• [01:48] Prosperity Code #1: Don't Complain Without Action
• [03:03] Prosperity Code #2: Avoid Blame, Excuses, and Defensiveness
• [04:07] Prosperity Code #3: Don't Live in Victim Energy
• [06:02] Prosperity Code #4: Don't Seek External Validation
• [07:06] Prosperity Code #5: Avoid Entitlement
• [09:14] Prosperity Code #6: Don't Avoid Conflict
• [11:13] Prosperity Code #7: Don't Offer Unsolicited Advice
• [13:40] Embrace High Vibe Behaviors Without Judgment
• [14:01] Conclusion

If you recognize yourself in any of these behaviors, good. Awareness is the first step. Now let’s shift into the energy of your next-level self.

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You don’t need a new serum, a new diet, or a new man to glow up this summer—you just need you. In this episode, Hilary is handing out the keys to radiance, and spoiler alert: they’re all about your energy, not your eye cream. Because glowing up has almost nothing to do with how you look and everything to do with how you feel.

From slowing down your pace to indulging in what actually lights you up, Hilary walks you through the internal shifts that make you magnetic. We’re talking presence over appearance. Being rather than doing. Feminine flow instead of frazzled hustle.

Episode Highlights:

• Trade burnout for slow, sensual mornings
• Choose desire over duty (yes, you can buy the sundress just because you want to)
• Fill your calendar with you before it fills up with everyone else
• Eat and drink like a woman who loves herself

Episode Breakdown:

• [00:00] Rediscover Your Spark
• [01:24] How to Have a Summer Glow Up
• [01:35] Slow Down and Embrace Feminine Energy
• [03:10] Let Yourself Receive and Indulge in Desire
• [05:07] Prioritize Yourself and Fill Your Days with Intention
• [07:07] Eat and Drink Like You Love Yourself
• [08:49] Create a Powerful Morning Mindset Ritual
• [11:06] Glow From Within: Presence Over Appearance

Because turning heads isn’t about getting attention—it’s about owning your presence so fully that people feel you walk in the room.

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We talk a lot about the regrets people have when they're dying, but what about the regrets we carry every single day?

In this episode, Hilary Silver, former therapist and master coach of 25 years, shares the four most common regrets she hears in her work with high-functioning women. These are micro-regrets that quietly erode your confidence, peace, and sense of self.

From staying silent when you should’ve spoken up, to ignoring your intuition, to being too critical of your appearance, Hilary unpacks the everyday ways we abandon ourselves, and how to stop.

Episode Highlights:

• What self-abandonment really looks like (and how it shows up)
• Why burnout keeps you from showing up as your best self
• How to stop dismissing your inner voice
• The sneaky regret most women have about their bodies—and how to stop repeating the cycle

Episode Breakdown:

• [00:00] Why We Regret What We Do (and Don’t Do)
• [01:47] Regret #1: Self-Abandonment in Relationships & Life
• [04:36] Regret #2: Not Being Your Best Self
• [06:33] Regret #3: Ignoring Your Intuition
• [07:46] Regret #4: Being Too Hard on Yourself
• [09:33] How to Learn from Regret Without Shame

Regret can either weigh you down or wake you up. This episode is your reminder to choose differently, starting now.

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Still following the fitness rules from your 30’s and wondering why they aren’t working anymore? Hilary is here to tell you: It’s time to break up with the punishing workouts, the rigid food rules, and the guilt-tripping voice in your head.

At 52, Hilary is in the best shape of her life. She’s leaner, stronger, and more energized than ever, and she’s doing it without tracking macros, counting calories, or wrecking her body with HIIT workouts. In this refreshingly real episode, Hilary breaks down the five shifts that helped her finally get the results she wanted, not just physically, but mentally and emotionally too.

From unlearning outdated fitness “rules” to adopting a mindset rooted in self-devotion (not self-discipline), she shares how tuning out the noise and tuning into her own body changed everything. You’ll hear about her exact lifestyle habits, how she makes working out something she actually enjoys, and why flexibility matters just as much as strength.

No shame, no extremes, no performative BS, just smart, doable shifts that honor where you are now.

Episode Highlights:

• The real reason your old routines aren’t working anymore
• Why pushing harder might be hurting more than helping
• The mindset shift that changed Hilary’s entire approach to fitness
• Her go-to workouts, food philosophy, and everyday habits
• How to prioritize yourself unapologetically—at the gym and everywhere else

Episode Breakdown:

• [00:00] Fitness Wake-Up Call
• [01:44] Listening to Your Body
• [03:10] From Punishment to Self-Devotion
• [06:10] Defining Strength + Health on Your Terms
• [07:12] Habits That Actually Support You
• [10:11] Prioritizing Yourself
• [11:14] Making Fitness Enjoyable
• [15:26] Self-Devotion > Self-Discipline

Ready to break the rules and feel amazing in your body again? Let this episode be your permission slip.

Want to go deeper? Check out Hilary’s Self Devotion program to turn this mindset into your everyday way of being. [https://hilarysilver.com/self-devoted/]

Hot flashes aren’t the problem—gaslighting is.

Hilary takes aim at the menopause conversation and asks the question no one else is asking: What if this isn’t your downfall, but your awakening?

In this episode, she breaks down the cultural scripts, conditioning, and quiet misogyny wrapped in every “crazy menopausal woman” meme, and replaces it with truth, clarity, and power.

This is not a hormonal crisis. This is your moment.

Episode Highlights:

• Why blaming hormones keeps women stuck
• The myth of the “crazy menopausal woman”
• What really causes women to question their marriage at midlife
• Why losing your cool isn’t the issue—losing yourself is
• The gift of finally putting yourself first (and meaning it)

Episode Breakdown:

• [00:00] Challenging the Menopause Narrative
• [01:05] The Gaslighting of Women's Health
• [02:10] Menopause and Divorce: What’s Really Going On
• [05:05] Midlife Awakening vs. Hormonal Blame
• [07:04] Cultural Conditioning and Losing Ourselves
• [08:06] Why the “Crazy Menopausal Woman” Trope is So Dangerous
• [11:11] Menopause Isn’t a Crisis—It’s a Revolution
• [12:32] Reclaiming Your Power in Midlife

💥 Midlife isn’t the end. It’s the turning point. Ready to stop tolerating and start owning it? Hit play.

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🚀 What’s been your biggest midlife realization? Drop it in the comments!