In today’s episode, we dive into a rarely discussed truth: even in healthy, peaceful relationships, many men feel a silent pressure.

Not because the relationship is bad. But because it’s good.

When things are calm, loving, and wholesome, the discomfort doesn’t always disappear—instead, it gets louder. Why? Because peace requires presence. Stability demands emotional leadership. A wholesome relationship doesn’t relieve responsibility; it reveals it.

Many men were never taught how to sit with peace. They’re used to reacting to chaos, fixing problems, or staying emotionally distant. So when a woman offers softness, stability, and safety… it can feel unfamiliar—even threatening.

Suddenly, there's no drama to blame. No excuses to hide behind. Just the raw, vulnerable truth: “If this relationship fails, it might be on me.”

That’s the hidden weight.
The emotional responsibility.
The role of spiritual and relational leadership that society expects men to carry—but rarely explains how.

In this episode, we unpack:

• Why healthy relationships can feel harder than toxic ones

• How inner healing affects relational peace

• What it really means for a man to "carry the vision"

• And why peace is not passive—it’s powered by responsibility

This one might sting—but it’s also a roadmap for better love.

Welcome to the deep end—where adulting hits hard and the ocean isn't full of fish… it's full of sharks and freaks. In this raw episode, I unpack the brutal truth about financial survival when you're broke, jobless, and out of clients.

We dive into the rising pressure of bills, the mental weight of expectations, and the real fear of staying stuck. But it’s not all gloom—I also show you a life raft: AI job agents. Learn how to use them to automate job applications, boost your chances, and stay in the game.

If you’re feeling lost in the adulting mess, this episode is your compass.

After nearly a year off the mic, we're back—and what a year it’s been. From CBEX, the crypto scam that left thousands burned, to Shenseea’s no-show concert that had fans fuming, to mass protests that turned into mayhem, 2024 was anything but quiet in Kenya.We talk: The rise and fall of CBEX—was it ever legit? The Shenseea saga—why she never hit the stage in Nairobi The death of the Pope and global ripple effects Protesters breaking into Parliament—what led to this unprecedented moment?Plus, I share what I’ve been up to during the break, what made me hit "record" again, and what you can expect this season. If you thought things were wild, this recap will blow your mind.