Many entrepreneurs and couples dream big but struggle to turn their visions into reality. In this episode, Robert and Kay Lee Fukui share their personal journey of setting and achieving long-term goals—both in business and life. Broadcasting from their temporary studio in beautiful Lake Norman, North Carolina, they reflect on the small, intentional steps they took to build the life they envisioned. They discuss why only 8% of people actually achieve their goals, the power of revisiting your vision regularly, and why progress matters more than perfection.

Through their experiences—from climbing the corporate ladder to building a thriving business together—they reveal the key mindset shifts and practical actions that helped them make their dreams attainable. Whether it’s growing your business, reaching financial freedom, or designing a lifestyle that truly aligns with your priorities, they break down how to take small, strategic steps toward your big goals. Plus, they offer insights on overcoming the fear of making the "perfect" decision and how to avoid common pitfalls that keep people stuck in the planning phase.

If you're ready to move from “maybe someday” to making real progress toward your vision, this episode is for you. Tune in as Robert and Kay Lee encourage you to dream boldly, take action, and create the life and business you truly desire—one step at a time.

✅ Speak or Write Your Vision – Articulating your goals helps bring them to life. Keep them visible and revisit them often.
✅ Progress Over Perfection – Focus on taking consistent small steps rather than waiting for the perfect moment.
✅ Physically Immerse Yourself in Your Vision – Visit places or connect with people aligned with your dreams to make them feel more real.
✅ Revisit and Adjust Your Goals Regularly – Reviewing your vision often helps you stay on track and make necessary adjustments.
✅ Take Action, Even If It’s Small – Success doesn’t happen overnight; it’s the result of steady, incremental progress.

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Why Money Arguments Are Tearing Marriages Apart—and How to Stop Them

Money is one of the top sources of conflict in marriage. From debates over spending and saving to disagreements about investing and earning, financial differences can strain even the strongest relationships. These disputes are often at the root of divorce or emotional disconnection.

Why do couples struggle so much with money conversations, and how can they work together to find common ground?

This week, we’re joined by Deb Meyer, a Certified Financial Planner and founder of WorthyNest®, a wealth management firm specializing in family-focused financial planning. Deb shares the most common reasons couples clash over money and offers practical strategies to help you and your spouse align your financial goals, reduce conflict, and build a stronger partnership.

Don’t let money arguments define your marriage—tune in to learn how to turn these tough conversations into opportunities for growth and connection.

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Key Takeaways:

• It's important to frame financial discussions in a fun way.

• Creative budgeting can enhance the spending experience.

• Memories created as a family are more valuable than gifts.

• Regular conversations about money can reduce tension in relationships.

• Budgeting is just one aspect of a comprehensive financial plan.

• Couples can forge a new financial future together.

• Faith can guide financial decision-making.

• Experiences often provide more satisfaction than material possessions.

• Engaging children in financial discussions can be beneficial.

• Regular check-ins on financial goals are essential for progress.

Deb Meyer, CFP®, CPA, and CEPA, is the award-winning author of Redefining Family Wealth, host of the Beyond Budgets® podcast (we were on Episode 19), and founder of WorthyNest®, a fee-only, fiduciary wealth management firm that guides parents through important financial decisions using a values-based approach.

Deb has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, and CNN Business and is a contributor to Kiplinger. She is a 2019 CPA Practice Advisor “40 Under 40 Honoree” in Accounting and received the 2018 AICPA Standing Ovation Award. Deb lives in Missouri with her husband Bryan and three sons.

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We often talk about priorities and what truly matters beyond the demands of business, but last week, we faced a real-life test of those values.

In this episode, we recount the moment our condo fire alarm blared in the middle of the largest firestorm Southern California has ever seen. With fires raging near Malibu and just north of us in Pasadena, the air was thick with smoke and ash, triggering an immediate sense of fear: Could the fire have reached our building?

The urgency of the moment forced us to act fast. What do you grab when you might lose everything? What does that reveal about what you truly value?

Join us as we unpack this experience, reflect on how it clarified our priorities, and explore why we often cling so tightly to replaceable things. This is a powerful conversation about defining what matters most in life—and living that out every day.

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Takeaways

• Relationships are the most important aspect of life.

• In times of crisis, we realize what truly matters.

• Material possessions can be replaced, but memories cannot.

• It's essential to prioritize family and relationships over business.

• Natural disasters can have long-lasting effects on communities.

• People often want to help but may not know how.

• Preparation for disasters should include emotional readiness.

• Reflecting on what is important can lead to a more fulfilling life.

• The aftermath of disasters requires long-term support and rebuilding efforts.

• We should not wait for disaster to reassess our priorities.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Relationships

02:00 Facing Natural Disasters: A Personal Experience

12:45 What Truly Matters: Prioritizing During Crisis

19:30 Long-Term Effects of Disasters on Communities

25:32 Reflection: Reassessing Priorities in Life