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In this episode, Dr. Tay dives into the concept of grief that parents may experience upon learning about their child's autism diagnosis. Dr. Tay discusses the various stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—and how these emotions impact the parenting journey. She emphasizes that grieving in this context is not about mourning the child but rather a shift in expectations and the challenges of raising an autistic child in a predominantly neurotypical world. The episode includes real-life examples from Dr. Tay’s community, highlighting the diverse experiences of parents. Additionally, Dr. Tay shared about her educational membership and clinical services aimed at providing continuous support for parents processing grief and a sense of community for parents navigating similar journeys.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

01:58 Understanding Grief in the Context of Autism

04:49 Personal Experiences and Examples of Grief

08:43 Navigating Grief and Acceptance

13:51 Community Insights on Grief

25:56 Navigating Different Parenting Perspectives

26:19 Seeking Support and Resources

28:05 Understanding the Stages of Grief

28:48 Denial in the Grief Process

30:12 Anger and Its Manifestations

32:07 Bargaining and Desperate Measures

33:47 Depression and Its Impact

35:49 Acceptance and Psychological Flexibility

40:59 Complicated Grief and Its Variations

47:59 The Importance of Community and Support

52:07 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ join EVOLVE the membership here

⚡️ LEARN more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current clinical services offered as well as her new educational membership? visit drtaylorday.com

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Dr. Tay is joined by Dr. Marie Hooper, a clinical psychologist (supervised practice) from Toronto, Canada. They dive into the nuances of autism diagnosis, discussing why autism is often misdiagnosed and the importance of differential diagnosis. Dr. Marie shares her personal journey of being diagnosed as autistic at 43 and talks about her clinic, Flourish Health Services, and her upcoming initiative, Autism Reframe. The conversation also touches on the impact of sensory differences, the significance of accurate diagnosis, and the benefits of understanding one's neurotype for identity and acceptance.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:28 Guest Introduction: Dr. Hooper

01:45 Personal Stories and Professional Background

04:00 Challenges in Autism Diagnosis

09:52 Misdiagnosis and Clinical Practice

11:45 Reevaluating Diagnoses and Identity

22:41 Parental Guidance and Support

25:37 Supportive Nudges and Clinical Care

25:56 Listening to Autistic Adults

26:20 Addressing Fear and Celebrating Diagnoses

27:10 Misdiagnosis of OCD and Autism

30:44 Understanding Sensory Differences

31:46 Challenges with Diagnostic Tools

36:54 Misdiagnosis of ODD and PDA

38:42 Borderline Personality Disorder and Autism

40:28 Final Thoughts and Resources

43:02 Conclusion and Call to Action

RESOURCES

⚡️learn more about Dr. Hooper's services in Canada flourishhealthservices.ca and her upcoming clinician trainings through autismreframe.com.

⚡️ LEARN more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current clinical services offered as well as her new educational membership? visit drtaylorday.com

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In this candid and vulnerable episode, Dr. Tay dives deep into the theme of identity, sharing personal insights and challenges from her own journey. She discusses the importance of showing up as one's true, authentic self, especially for parents navigating life with autism. Dr. Tay touches on the struggles of balancing various roles in life and the discomfort that comes with self-disclosure and authenticity. Drawing inspiration from the 'Call Her Alex' documentary and addressing the need for self-integration, Dr. Tay encourages listeners to explore their true identity, model vulnerability, and seek support when needed. The episode is an invitation to embrace the journey of self-discovery and authenticity.

00:00 Introduction and Today's Theme

00:24 Navigating Identity and Authenticity

01:54 The Power of Self-Disclosure

03:32 Personal Reflections and Inspirations

04:55 Embracing Vulnerability and Realness

06:05 The Journey of Self-Discovery

09:49 Integrating Parts and Internal Family Systems

12:34 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

20:27 Invitation to Join the Membership

27:42 Concluding Thoughts and Future Episodes

RESOURCES

⚡️ it is FINALLY officially open - join EVOLVE the membership here

⚡️ LEARN more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current clinical services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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