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In this episode, Dr. Tay dives into the concept of grief that parents may experience upon learning about their child's autism diagnosis. Dr. Tay discusses the various stages of grief—denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance—and how these emotions impact the parenting journey. She emphasizes that grieving in this context is not about mourning the child but rather a shift in expectations and the challenges of raising an autistic child in a predominantly neurotypical world. The episode includes real-life examples from Dr. Tay’s community, highlighting the diverse experiences of parents. Additionally, Dr. Tay shared about her educational membership and clinical services aimed at providing continuous support for parents processing grief and a sense of community for parents navigating similar journeys.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

01:58 Understanding Grief in the Context of Autism

04:49 Personal Experiences and Examples of Grief

08:43 Navigating Grief and Acceptance

13:51 Community Insights on Grief

25:56 Navigating Different Parenting Perspectives

26:19 Seeking Support and Resources

28:05 Understanding the Stages of Grief

28:48 Denial in the Grief Process

30:12 Anger and Its Manifestations

32:07 Bargaining and Desperate Measures

33:47 Depression and Its Impact

35:49 Acceptance and Psychological Flexibility

40:59 Complicated Grief and Its Variations

47:59 The Importance of Community and Support

52:07 Final Thoughts and Resources

RESOURCES

⚡️ join EVOLVE the membership here

⚡️ LEARN more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current clinical services offered as well as her new educational membership? visit drtaylorday.com

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Dr. Tay is joined by Dr. Marie Hooper, a clinical psychologist (supervised practice) from Toronto, Canada. They dive into the nuances of autism diagnosis, discussing why autism is often misdiagnosed and the importance of differential diagnosis. Dr. Marie shares her personal journey of being diagnosed as autistic at 43 and talks about her clinic, Flourish Health Services, and her upcoming initiative, Autism Reframe. The conversation also touches on the impact of sensory differences, the significance of accurate diagnosis, and the benefits of understanding one's neurotype for identity and acceptance.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:28 Guest Introduction: Dr. Hooper

01:45 Personal Stories and Professional Background

04:00 Challenges in Autism Diagnosis

09:52 Misdiagnosis and Clinical Practice

11:45 Reevaluating Diagnoses and Identity

22:41 Parental Guidance and Support

25:37 Supportive Nudges and Clinical Care

25:56 Listening to Autistic Adults

26:20 Addressing Fear and Celebrating Diagnoses

27:10 Misdiagnosis of OCD and Autism

30:44 Understanding Sensory Differences

31:46 Challenges with Diagnostic Tools

36:54 Misdiagnosis of ODD and PDA

38:42 Borderline Personality Disorder and Autism

40:28 Final Thoughts and Resources

43:02 Conclusion and Call to Action

RESOURCES

⚡️learn more about Dr. Hooper's services in Canada flourishhealthservices.ca and her upcoming clinician trainings through autismreframe.com.

⚡️ LEARN more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current clinical services offered as well as her new educational membership? visit drtaylorday.com

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In this candid and vulnerable episode, Dr. Tay dives deep into the theme of identity, sharing personal insights and challenges from her own journey. She discusses the importance of showing up as one's true, authentic self, especially for parents navigating life with autism. Dr. Tay touches on the struggles of balancing various roles in life and the discomfort that comes with self-disclosure and authenticity. Drawing inspiration from the 'Call Her Alex' documentary and addressing the need for self-integration, Dr. Tay encourages listeners to explore their true identity, model vulnerability, and seek support when needed. The episode is an invitation to embrace the journey of self-discovery and authenticity.

00:00 Introduction and Today's Theme

00:24 Navigating Identity and Authenticity

01:54 The Power of Self-Disclosure

03:32 Personal Reflections and Inspirations

04:55 Embracing Vulnerability and Realness

06:05 The Journey of Self-Discovery

09:49 Integrating Parts and Internal Family Systems

12:34 Balancing Personal and Professional Life

20:27 Invitation to Join the Membership

27:42 Concluding Thoughts and Future Episodes

RESOURCES

⚡️ it is FINALLY officially open - join EVOLVE the membership here

⚡️ LEARN more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current clinical services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

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Dr. Tay welcomes psychiatrist Dr. Stacy Greeter to discuss the complexities of explaining medication to autistic children. They emphasize the importance of maintaining a neurodiversity-affirming approach, focusing on informed consent, and fostering a healthy relationship with medication. Dr. Greeter shares personal experiences and tips on building trust, understanding unique responses to medications, and the critical role of autonomy in treatment. They also discuss the broader challenges within the medical profession and the importance of continual learning and flexibility for practitioners.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:54 Guest Introduction: Dr. Stacy Greeter

01:26 Host Background and Podcast Purpose

02:40 Challenges in Psychiatry and Neurodiversity

05:19 Dr. Greeter's Personal Journey

12:27 Medication and Autism: Key Insights

18:12 Guiding Parents on Medication Conversations

23:34 The Role of Medicine in Treatment

24:08 Balancing Medicine and Personal Responsibility

25:11 Addressing Anxiety with Medication

25:58 Using Metaphors to Explain Medication

26:46 The Importance of Patient Ownership

27:18 The Impact of Beliefs on Medication Efficacy

28:18 Parental Concerns and Positive Expectations

29:29 Navigating Medication with Autonomy

31:35 Building a Therapeutic Alliance

34:26 Understanding Reluctance to Take Medication

39:49 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

41:31 Resources and Closing Remarks

*note: PDA is discussed in this episode. it is a theorized profile often seen in a subset of autistic individuals and not a clinical diagnosis. however, it has been a helpful conceptualization for many parents to learn about how their child's brain is wired. our knowledge of PDA is currently unfolding and I do my best to share up-to-date, balanced information. to learn more about PDA, please listen to episode 110

RESOURCES

⚡️inquire about Dr. Greeter’s services in FL and CO and sign up for her newsletter at stacygreetermd.com

⚡️watch Dr. Greeter’s trainings on YouTube @stacygreetermd

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In this episode, Dr. Tay dives into the concept of inner authority from human design and its significance in enhancing parental advocacy and personal growth. Joined by Rosy Crescitelli, a human design specialist and multisensory reading expert, they explore various types of inner authorities such as sacral, emotional, splenic, ego, self, sounding board, and lunar. They discuss how understanding and leveraging one's unique inner authority can facilitate better decision-making and create a more supportive environment for autistic children. Practical tips and insights are provided to help parents navigate this journey, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, self-compassion, and nervous system regulation. Listen in to learn how human design can be a transformative tool for both personal and parental empowerment.

00:00 Introduction and Inner Authority Overview

00:46 Guest Introduction: Rosy Crescitelli

01:34 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Purpose

02:43 Rosy's Journey into Human Design

05:14 Understanding Human Design and Inner Authority

12:25 Sacral Authority: Trusting Your Gut

19:37 Emotional Authority: Riding the Emotional Wave

27:19 Splenic Authority: Quiet Intuition

31:21 Gratitude and Self-Trust

31:50 Understanding Splenic Authority

33:01 Ego Authority Explained

35:38 Self Authority for Projectors

39:30 Sounding Board Authority

47:54 Lunar Authority for Reflectors

52:53 Recap and Final Thoughts

56:04 Advocating for Your Child's Human Design

58:41 Connecting with Rosy

01:03:10 Closing Remarks

please note: in this episode, many terminologies and phrases are used to describe autism. Dr. Tay honors what each child and family prefers, and intentionally chooses to use affirming and identity-first language after listening to autistic adults and their preferences. various guests on the podcast are likely to use the language that they have been exposed to the most.

RESOURCES

⚡️ find out your human design (be sure to also listen to episode 38 to learn more about HD)

⚡️explore ways to learn more about your or your child's human design with Rosy here

⚡️connect with Rosy on Instagram @wholeheartedrosy

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Dr. Tay emphasizes the importance of asking questions as a tool for progress, especially for parents navigating the challenges of raising an autistic child. She discusses her own journey to launch a membership for parents seeking support, inspired by a serendipitous experience with a community she belongs to. Dr. Tay shares the story of how asking the right questions can lead to actionable outcomes and encourages parents to embrace their right to ask and advocate for their children.

00:00 Introduction to Asking for Help

00:39 Personal Journey and Decision Making

02:37 The Importance of Bite-Sized Information

04:42 The Power of Asking Questions

07:47 Launching the Membership

10:44 Encouragement to Ask Questions

15:10 Conclusion and Next Steps

RESOURCES

⚡️ JOIN EVOLVE the membership waitlist here

⚡️ LEARN more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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In this episode, Dr. Tay is joined by guest Amanda Moses, a neurodivergent psychologist from Australia, who specializes in autism identification in those with complex and highly masked presentations. They discuss the differences in how autism presents in females versus males, the concept of masking, and the unique social challenges that often lead to delayed diagnoses. Amanda offers practical advice for parents and clinicians on how to better recognize and support autistic children and adults. The episode emphasizes the importance of specialized training for clinicians and the need for more self-compassion and understanding among those exploring their own neurodivergent traits.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:28 Autism Diagnostic Criteria and Episode Reference

01:10 Amanda's Background and Passion for Autism

01:38 Dr. Tay's Background and Podcast Purpose

02:40 Amanda's Journey and PhD Focus

04:07 Challenges in Autism Assessment Tools

10:22 Importance of Self-Identification and Formal Diagnosis

14:46 Challenges in Diagnosing Girls with Autism

26:51 Key Transitional Points for Diagnosing Autism in Girls

31:44 Recognizing Emotional Dysregulation in Children

32:26 Perfectionism and Cognitive Rigidity

33:10 The Role of Savvy Parents

33:31 The Importance of Content Creation

35:37 Exploring Masking in Autism

38:16 Personal Experiences with Masking

41:11 Helping Children Understand Their Energy Levels

44:25 The Complexities of Masking and Mental Health

46:40 Finding Safe Spaces for Authenticity

53:49 Social Connections Among Neurodivergent Individuals

56:35 Resources for Understanding Masking

01:00:00 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

RESOURCES

⚡️ continue learning from Amanda Moses on Instagram @amandamosespsychology and via her website

⚡️paid resource on masking mentioned in the episode

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Dr. Tay shares personal experiences and insights about making significant life changes. She discusses the challenges and importance of trusting one's instincts, especially when overthinking sets in. Dr. Tay recounts a personal story involving a car accident and fire ants, which led her to a profound realization about her own business decisions, particularly the launch of the anticipated membership to support families navigating autism. She emphasizes the value of listening to your body, taking action despite fear, and leveraging gut feelings in both parenting and personal growth. This episode encourages parents, especially those of autistic children, to trust themselves and act on their intuitive nudges.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:32 About Dr. Tay and the Podcast

01:22 Disclaimer and Episode Topic Introduction

01:58 Personal Story: The Fire Ant Incident

03:27 Business Mastermind and Spiritual Meaning of Fire Ants

05:20 Struggles with Launching the Membership

08:40 The Importance of Trusting Your Gut

09:17 Quality Over Quantity in Services

11:29 Navigating Parenting Decisions

15:38 Personal Reflections and Call to Action

22:39 Final Thoughts and Farewell

RESOURCES

⚡️ want to learn more about Dr. Tay's Whole Family Approach and current services offered? visit drtaylorday.com

⚡️ continue learning from me and submit any questions [could be featured on a future episode] >>

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